Children were meant as a
gift to both parents’
not just moms
Note to women: myself and millions of
guys like me were bringing home the “bacon” and “frying it up too” before we
ever got married. This attitude that if mommy is mad or upset dad suffers is
chicken-shit and better be rethought, fast.
I was downtown in a major metropolitan
area in the middle of July 07 and the young animals were conversing in the
ghetto language of nigger this and nigger that. In the transportation system we
were riding on one of the young animals was spitting rather indiscriminately
out the window another was picking his nose and shooting spit-balls at passing
cars (this was mixed race). My own guess is that the single mother, as much as
she wants to, has no control over her animals and that the dad is nowhere in
the picture.
The rate of out of wedlock children in
the black community by 1970 was around 37.5 percent and generally ignored (in
1998 it was 69%). The white community reached 25 percent of out of wedlock
children in 1995 and “leadership” started to wake up to the fact there might be
a problem. Today single parent head of households exceed 50% with over 75% of
children seeing very little of dads. Why is this? Why is dad nowhere in the
picture?
A household will not survive with two
people trying to wear the pants, it winds up a disaster. When women decide that
they are going to rule the roost instead of walking beside their men problems
start to occur, if they are married and the man still has his testicles, it has
a tendency to lead to divorce. If he has handed his testicles over to her, it
leads to contempt, there is no balance, which leads to chicken-shit attitudes
and problems.
I have seen it time and again, women
pampering their sons, spoiling the boys and treating them like little prima
donnas; treating them better then they treat their husband: they set up a power
play against the man pitting 2 (mother and son) against 1 (husband, dad). Consequently
children (mostly the boys) are running the household and dads are treated like
trash, at which time women end up divorced, raising weak willed boys, who have
never been taught how to make it in a man’s world.
On the other hand it is surprising how many women treat their daughters like
slaves.
It is unfortunate that so often when a
divorce occurs and the dad has been removed from the picture there is no one
around to slow this down and temper this, so our prisons start filling up with
young men who lack self-control and girls desiring attention start to become
wild.
Removing or belittling the functions of dads
who try to maintain a relationship with their children has a devastating affect
on society.
If you are having a hard time
comprehending what is happening to society watch a days’ worth of MTV and
realize how Far into the gutter we have crawled.
When in society men and women do not walk
side by side there will be problems; if the woman is walking out in front she
is being disrespectful, it appears she wishes to lead, to be in charge, in
control, contemptuous of the man that she is not walking beside.
If the woman is walking behind the man
this is not good either; the odds are she has self worth issues generally
brought about by the actions of some smooth talking man
Neither situation is good for society
the women who is disrespectful of men or the men mistreating women; but it has
become common place in America (contemptuous control freaks) and there does not
seem to be very much ground in the middle.
Don’t get mad at me watch MTV’s Who
wants to bang a virgin (or whatever it’s called) or there is always BET if one
can’t stomach MTV.
The same jerk who controls MTV controls
BET; does Wall Street care! Hell No! Their Making Money, go figure!
Anarchy is easy
but
restraint and respect are learned actions that take SELF-control
Wake up, history appears to
be repeating itself again.
Is there a downside to hooking up?
Do dads matter?
American families' plight: Lives
structured to a fault
Chicken-shit refers to behavior that makes
life worse than it need be. Petty harassment in marriages or relationships;
open scrimmage for power, and authority and prestige; insistence on control
rather than harmony and love. Chicken-shit is so-called instead of horse or
bull or elephant-shit because it is small minded and ignoble and takes the
trivial, seriously. Chicken-shit can be recognized instantly because it never
has anything to do with accomplishing the job at hand. (Most chicken-shit
attitudes come from individuals who are normally just control freaks.)
The definition of the word
chicken-shit, came from the book Citizen Soldiers (a soldiers' view of World
War II), slightly modified to meet this usage.
It is to bad; instead of
working together
we have become households divided,
it appears we will fall separately.