No one living today is
perfect
There are large
numbers of Vets who have killed others; it was a job that their government
wanted done for whatever reason, some still don’t sleep well even now 30 or more
years later for the older ones and from the articles that I have read a large
number of younger Vets are experiencing problems from “recent” assignments in
foreign countries.
I would like all you women who
have had an abortion to look around, you will find there are lots of men and women who can
relate to your pain, and won’t judge you – they don’t want to be
judged.
I would like all you men that have
skeletons in your closets to look around and realize there are lots of women and men who
can relate to your pain, and won’t judge you – they don’t want to be
judged.
It makes no difference how or
why it happens, taking a life is going to be difficult for most people without
the guilt trips that society hands out.
There are
lots of individuals who don’t feel they have the right to enter a church: Paul
before he received his wake-up call was killing “Christians” and thinking it was
a right and good thing.
He was
forgiven, read Mathew, Mark, Luke, John, Acts and Proverbs for yourself don’t
trust someone else to interpret the Bible for you, it is written in English,
Spanish, French, Chinese, most any language in the world, it is so simple, yet
we as people have to make it difficult.
Reach out to help someone else today, he
or she could use a hand
IT'S
TIME TO EMBRACE GRACE
During the 1988 Bush-Dukakis
U.S. presidential race, an unexpected shift of attention occurred. Instead of
the evening news focusing on the presidential candidates, all eyes were glued
to the television to follow the progress of three gray whales that had been cut
off from their migratory route by a frozen sea of ice. Eugene Linden, a
reporter from Time magazine, wrote:
The sight of three battered
and bloodied gray whales gasping for breath at holes on a thickening Arctic ice pack
caused Americans to forget, for a moment or two, both the World Series and the
Bush-Dukakis race.
An unlikely, uneasy army of
scientists, whale-hunting Eskimos, oil company officials and environmental activists
mustered in frigid Point Barrow, Alaska, the northern most point in the United
States, to organize a $1 million rescue effort. Biologists named the whales
“Bonnet", "Crossbeak" and "Bone." By weeks end the
Eskimo names---Putu, Siku, and Kanik, Ice Hole, Ice, and Snowflake. They also
had the good wishes of President Reagan, who called to tell rescue workers that
our "hearts are with you and our prayers are also with you". The
media frenzy prompted a bewildered Ron Morris Fisheries biologist coordinating
the rescue, to remark, "This is completely out of proportion."
Once the media brought the
whales' plight home to our living rooms, volunteers flocked to the scene with
heavy machinery and a determination to free the stranded whales. But the
volunteers' ingenuity and energy were soon exhausted. Enter the National Guard,
who swooped in with helicopters to drop five-ton concrete blocks to break up
the ice. Then, in a cooperative agreement with the United States and the Soviet
Union dispatched two ice-breaking ships to facilitate the rescue.
After three weeks of intense
rescue efforts, Bonnet, and Crossbeak were finally freed. (Sadly, the third
whale, Bone died before making it to safety.) This heroic and noble whale
rescue sparked a sense of compassion throughout the world, but it did something
else too. It revealed that people seem more willing to pitch in to save
ocean-dwelling mammals then they are to join hands in rescue efforts that
involve mankind.
If you don't agree, just
consider the following questions. How many people would dig into their pockets
to help a homeless couple stranded on the icy streets of Chicago? How many
would donate their money to free a family from a New York ghetto? How many
would open their homes to unwed mothers? How many would sacrifice their time
and money to minister to prisoners? How many would devote themselves to sharing
the gospel with all their non-Christian neighbors and colleagues?
It's a sad fact: we're often
more willing to help save the whales then we are to help save human beings.
You might wonder where in the
world I'm going with this story about the whales and I'm happy to tell you.
While I watched the scene and read about it in the periodicals, I noticed the
irony in the trouble that we will take to set free creatures with whom we can't
even communicate intelligently; but how slow we are on the family of God to set
one another free from our own lists of rules, inhibitions, restrictions, and
expectations! We'll spend millions to help the whales make it back to the
ocean, but we'll hardly give each other room to breathe in the spiritual and
theological area's in which we disagree.
If I had one wish for the
family of God, it would be that we would learn to demonstrate more grace to one
another in our relationships.
When I helped start a new
church in Frisco, Texas, and we began to build our staff, we chose six core
values. One of those values is "grace in our relationships." We
understood that IF we were to cooperate well as a ministry, we would have to
show grace in our relationships. The full statement of that core value reads:
As a ministry devoted to
communicating God's grace, we must demonstrate that same grace within our own
walls. We must put this into practice through our thoughtfulness, kindness,
generosity, courtesy, freedom, forgiveness, encouragement, and appreciation of
others' differences as we inspire greatness in those around us.
The men and woman of my generation
were not raised to be free. We were raised with lists of rules to follow.
Expectations were laid on us, beginning with our parents, and then including
teachers, pastors friends, and, fellow church members. We weren't given any
wiggly room if we wanted to be perceived as "spiritual". Rather
then celebrating the differences in the body, encouraging liberty, and, cutting
through the ice so that we can all swim freely, authority figures tried to
force us all into the same mold. We were told to "just sit there quietly
and be good, little Christians" We were encouraged to act in a way that
would please the pastor and allow us to gain status in the eyes of the people.
One of my spiritual goals is
to NEVER fall into that trap again. I've found that Christians can become such
controlling people. Rather then freeing others and affirming their unique value
and roles in the body of Christ, we tend to place them in bondage and judge
them. We may be willing to travel halfway around the world to help free
non-Christians from the shackles of sin, but we are pathetically slow to reach
out to our own neighbors or to release our own brothers and sisters in Christ
from the chains of legalism.
Though Christ has already set
us free from sin through His Death and resurrection, many of us remain trapped
in the ice of impossible expectations, legalistic requirements, and
performance-based spirituality. Instead of exerting energy to free fellow
believers, we let them suffocate under the ice, never experiencing the freedom guaranteed
by the blood of Christ.
Lest you think this type of
control is a new disease, let me show you Galatians 2:4, where Paul writes
about some non-Christians who had sneaked into the mist of the Galatian church
for the purpose of controlling the people.
But it was because of
the false brethren secretly brought in, who had sneaked in to spy out our
liberty which we have in Christ Jesus, in order to bring us into bondage.
Now look at Paul's response:
But we did not yield in
subjection to them for even an hour, so that the truth of the gospel would
remain with you. (2:5)
I love that! The same verse
in THE MESSAGE reads, "We didn't give them the time of day." If
all legalists were treated like that, they wouldn't get a foothold in the local
church. But because these types of people tend to intimidate others (and
because so few Christians are willing to stand up to them like Paul did), they
often worm their way into the church and start controlling others
Jesus said, “You will know
the truth, and the truth will set you free, you will be free indeed" (John
8:32, 36) But those with legalistic tendencies paraphrase this verse to read,
“If you wish to be free, you must be free on my terms. You will be free if you
keep the list of dos and don'ts that I give you. If you don't you'll be marked
for life, and you'll never attain a high level of spirituality"
Consider this funny but
telling example:
A group of theologians was
discussing predestination and free will. When the argument became heated the
dissidents split into two groups. One man which was unable to make up his mind
which group to join slipped into the predestination crowd. Challenged as to why
he was there, he said, “I came of my own free will". The group retorted:
Free will? "You can't join us!" He retreated to the opposing group
and met the same challenge. "I was sent here." he answered honestly.
Get out! They stormed. "You can't join us unless you come of your own free
will." The confused Christian was left out in the cold.
We can laugh about such
ridiculous examples until their truth hits us. It's these very
things ----splitting hairs and judging others----that drive people miles and
miles from any interest in the church or any desire to spend time with
Christian people
One of my prayers for the
church worldwide is that we will become a people of grace. Every time I sniff
out legalism I confront it. Why do I do that? Because legalism ruins churches.
It puts people in bondage, and it "ices them in." Their
"breathing holes" become smaller and smaller as a few
controlling, strong-willed people strive to get in their way. And I'm not going
to let that happen.
One of the responsibilities as a spiritual shepherd is to guard the
sheep from heresy, and there are few heresies worse then legalism. We do not
believe in a legalistic kind of salvation; we believe salvation is by grace
through faith, as the Bible clearly states. However, for some strange reason,
we seem to believe in SANCTIFICATION by legalism. We believe that people are
saved by faith alone, in Christ alone, apart from works--buy spirituality.--We
seem to think that a person can only become spiritual by doing this or by
giving up that, by hanging out with those like us and by not associating with
those who say or do things we don't agree with. Nothing could be further from
the truth.
LET GRACE FLOW FREELY
In order to loose the chains
of legalism and lead people to freedom, we must let grace flow freely. We need
to let people look different from us, act differently, and see things in a
different way then we do. Now, we're not talking about differences of doctrine
here. We can't waver on the essentials, but the non-essentials are just that:
not essential. We're not talking about changing the pillars of our
faith----just the window dressing.
I'm going to mention a couple
of traps that we can fall into, and then I'm going to give you some guidelines
from Romans 14. But first, let me explain the ways in which we can allow grace
to flow freely.
Here's the principal:
ALLOWING GRACE TO FLOW FREELY MEANS WE LET OTHERS BE. Unfortunately, two strong
and very human tendencies work against this principle. First, we tend to
compare ourselves with others, which leads us to criticize or compete with
them. Second, we attempt to control others, which results in our manipulating
and intimidating them. Let's dissect and examine both of these tendencies that
keep grace from awakening in our lives.
THE
TENDENCY TO COMPARE
Most people tend to prefer
others who share agreement, sameness, predictability, and common interests with
them. As a result, if someone thinks differently, prefers different
entertainment, wears different clothes, or enjoys a different lifestyle, we get
a little nervous. For example, how do you respond to your friend who:
***PLAYS CARDS****
***LOVES TO DANCE****
***LISTENS TO "SECULAR
MUSIC"****
***GOES TO THE BEACH ONE SUNDAY
INSTEAD OF GOING TO CHURCH****
***DRIVES A CERTAIN CAR****
***OWNS A SECOND HOME****
***HAS A GLASS OF WINE WITH DINNER
OCCASIONALLY****
***DOESN'T HAVE A QUITE TIME IN THE
MORNING****
***WATCHES CERTAIN MOVIES OR
TELEVISION****
***WEARS MAKEUP AND/OR JEWELRY****
***DECIDES TO HAVE PLASTIC
SURGERY****
***SMOKES CIGARS****
If Scripture refuses to comment,
why do we pipe up to judge and criticize others who disagree with us in these
gray areas? Our problem is one of superficiality. We tend to see only the
surface, and therefore, we put too much weight on externals. We judge by
appearances rather than actualities.
But the problem goes deeper
than that. It goes beyond the need for and eye exam. We also need an attitude
adjustment, because comparison knocks our attitude out of alignment. It
makes us prejudiced people. And it counteracts and opposes the work of grace.
We need to guard ourselves
against the comparison trap. You might say "Well, I don't really compare
myself to others much." Really? What about your income? Your academic
degrees? Marital status? Music tastes? Size of your home? Choice of vehicle? Vacation
destination? Clothing styles and labels? The schools your children attend? The
job you have? We compare all these things and all of it nullifies grace.
God never meant for the
church to be a religious industry designed to churn out cookie-cutter Christians
and paper-doll saints. On the contrary, His church is supposed to be a
celebration of diversity (1 Corinthians 12). God loves differences. He made the
zinnia as well as the orchid. He made the buzzard as well as the
butterfly. I mean, visit the zoo! Some of the animals will make you laugh out
loud. The giraffe doesn't look at all like a swan. The crocodile doesn't look a
thing like the toad. God created the stars, and He also created the swamplands.
He made it all, and He finds the differences delightful.
Unsure of this? Look at
the people in the Bible. They are as different as Rahab and Esther, the one an
ex-prostitute and the other an exquisite queen.
Variety honors God.
Uniformity bores Him. Consider the variegation of the threads woven through the
genealogy of God's Son in Matthew. Cup your ears in the marble hallways of
faith in Hebrews 11, and hear the echoes of diversity Page through church
history, and read about the great differences in the men and woman who shaped
the world.
Legalism requires that we all
be alike, unified in convictions and uniform in appearance, strictly abiding by
man-made rules and regulations. Grace, on the other hand, takes pleasure in
diversity, encourages individuality and leaves room for differences of opinion.
But before we will be able to demonstrate sufficient grace to let others
be who they are, we'll have to get rid of our legalistic tendency to compare.
THE
TENDENCY TO CONTROL
Another attitude we need
to change is the desire to control others. This tendency is especially
prevalent among those who find their security in religious rigidity. One of the
clearest signs of insecurity among leaders is a tendency to control people.
They manipulate by using fear tactics, veiled threats, and oblique hints to get
their way.
Controllers attempt to win by
intimidation. Whether physical or verbal, their ways are those of the
schoolyard bully. Resist that. Controllers often rely on strong wills and
manipulation. Resist that. Don’t let anyone manipulate or exploit you. You are
not here to fulfill anyone's agenda except God's. You are here because you're
led. We're all here to please our Father who is to be glorified.
You might say, "Well,
you know, Chuck, offering people this much grace and freedom seems kind of
risky?" It is: that's why most people don't do it. But it's also risky to
teach your teenager to drive, right? It's risky to fly. It's risky to work out
to the point of sweating profusely. It’s risky to trust your employees to
be honest. It's risky to give church members the freedom to make their own
choices. Of course it is! But you never grow up without risks.
You’re free to fail, and
you're free to succeed. Don't do what you do because of anybody else. Do it
because of you. You name the name of Christ, You live before Christ, You answer
to Christ, and that is freedom at its best. Guard against comparison, and watch
out for the tendency to control. Whatever the method, controlling, like
comparing, nullifies grace.
SOME
BIBLICAL GUIDELINES THAT MAGNIFY GRACE
But we don't want to dwell on
those things that nullify grace. We want to discover those things that magnify
it.
In Romans 14, Paul sets forth
four practical guidelines to help us release others on grace. He goes onto
great detail regarding the issue of personal freedom. The first guideline is
found in verses 1-4.
ACCEPT
OTHERS
Now accept the one who is
weak in faith, but not for the purpose of passing judgment on his opinions. One
person has faith that he may eat all things, but he who is weak eats vegetables
only. The one who eats is not to regard with contempt he who does not eat, and
the one who does not eat is not to judge the one who eats, for God has accepted
him. Who are you to judge the servant of another? To his own master he stands
or falls; and he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand. (Romans
14:1-4)
Here's guideline one:
Accepting others is basic to letting them be. The problem in Romans 14
was not a food problem. It was a love problem, an acceptance problem. It still
is. How often do we restrict our love by making it conditional? How often
do we make our acceptance dependent upon how others measure up to our own set
of expectations? Whether the subject in question is meat sacrificed in a
heathen temple or a movie showing in a Hollywood theater, the principle Paul
teaches here is the same: accept one another.
When we don't accept one
another, conflicts arise. Paul pinpoints the two most common ways that people
react to these conflicts. First, he said, "The one who eats is not to
regard who with contempt the one who does not eat" (14:3) The words regard
with contempt mean "to regard as nothing, to utterly despise, to discount
entirely."
Second, Paul says, "The
one who does not eat is not to judge the one who eats." (14:3). The word
judge means "to criticize, to view negatively, to make assumptions that
are exaggerated, erroneous, and even damaging to character."
Stop! What in the world is
that about? I mean, is this a passage promoting the eating of vegetarian
meals, or is it promoting the eating of meat? The big taboo back then was not
drinking and smoking. It was not going to the theater or listening to
certain kinds of music. The biggest taboo was that of eating meat that had
been offered to idols. Back then, if you were from a pagan background and had
worshiped idols, you had eaten meat that had been left over from and idol
offering. It was sold in the meat market, you bought your steaks there, and you
went home, fixed them, and ate them.
But then when you came to
Christ, there were some in the church who thought, if part of that carcass was
offered on an altar to an idol, then it's contaminated. I shouldn't touch meat
that's been offered on an idol alter because part of it was given to a (pagen) god,
and we don't believe in false gods. So I'm just going to eat vegetables.
Paul's point here is, if you
don't believe you should eat the rest of the meat, don't eat it---but don't
tell me I can't eat it! And if you prefer to eat meat and I prefer to eat only
vegetables, don't tell me that I'm wrong for just eating vegetables.
No matter how strongly we may
feel about a certain cultural taboo, judging another who disagrees with us or
looking down our nose with contempt is wrong. Why? Because, as Romans 14:4
indicates, another person's convictions are none of our business. After all,
who made us the judge to pass a verdict on other people's lifestyles? Who made
us the judge to mete out a sentence of condemnation? It's God's job to direct
them. It's our job to accept them.
What does acceptance entail?
It means you are valuable just as you are. It allows you to be the real you.
You aren't forced into someone else's mold of who you should be. It means your
ideas are taken seriously because they reflect you. You can talk about how you
feel inside and why you feel that way---and someone really cares.
Acceptance means you can try
out your ideas without being shot down. You can even express difficult and
less- then- orthodox thoughts and discuss them with intelligent questioning.
You feel safe. No one will pronounce judgment on you, even though they may not
agree with you. It doesn't mean you will never be corrected or shown to be
wrong; it simply means it is safe to be you, and no one will destroy you out of
prejudice.
Acceptance is basic to
letting others be themselves. Consider the next four verses of Romans 14 as we
turn to a second guideline.
LET
OTHERS DECIDE FOR THEMSELVES
One man regards one day above
another, another regards every day alike. Each person must be fully convinced
in his own mind. He who observes the day, observes it for the Lord, for he
gives thanks to God; and he who eats, does so for the Lord, for he gives thanks
to God; and he who eats not, for the Lord he does not eat, and gives thanks to
God. For not one of us lives for himself, and not one dies for himself; for if
we live, we live for the Lord, or if we die, we die for the Lord; therefore
whether we live or die, we are the Lord's. (14:5-8)
Here's guideline two:
refusing to dictate to others allows the Lord's freedom to direct their lives.
Do you want to help others grow to maturity? Here's how: let them grow up
differently. Let them unfold to blossom at their own pace and in their own way.
Let them decide for themselves. Let them have the freedom to fail and to learn
from their own mistakes.
To spell that out, don't
try to make up other people's minds for them. Don't manipulate them if your
opinion happens to be strong. Leave them alone. Don't judge them. Don't
step in and push your weight around. Don't assume that because others choose
differently that they're wrong and your right. We answer to God. When you
stand before the Lord in the final accounting of your life, you'll never have
to give an account for any other person but you. Isn't that a relief? You don't
have to worry about anybody's choices but your own.
My wife will never be asked
to give an account for Chuck Swindoll, even though she's been married to me for
more than fifty years, God will never say, "Now tell me about Chuck,"
He will never do that. First of all, she wouldn't have enough time, and,
second, God's going to ask ME about Chuck. He's going to ask her about Cynthia.
And the same is true for you and your family and your friends. Each of us
belongs to the Lord, Paul states in Romans 14:8. When we realize that, we will
stop dictating and start trusting the Lord to direct the steps of His children.
REFUSE
TO JUDGE OTHERS
The third guideline is found
in Roman 14:9-12: For to this end Christ died and lived again, that He
might be Lord both of the dead and the living. But you, why do you judge your
brother? Or you again, why do you regard your brother with contempt? For we
will all stand before the judgment seat of God. For it is written.
"As I live, says the
Lord, every knee shall bow to Me, and every tongue shall give praise to
God". So then each one of us shall give an account of himself to God.
Here's guideline three:
freeing others means we never assume a position we're not qualified to fill
What keeps us from being qualified to judge? Several things. Not being
omniscient, we don't know all the facts. Unable to see into people's hearts, we
can't read motives. Being finite, we lack "the big picture" Having
poor spiritual eyesight, we live with blind spots and blurred perspectives. Most
of all, being human, we are imperfect and subjective.
I'll give you an example,
which I share to my own shame. I was slated to speak at a conference a number
of years ago. On the first night, I met most of the couples who were there. It
was a couple's conference, and I met one dear lady who was kind and had a lot
of sweet things to say, I thanked her. I noticed then that her husband seemed
somewhat sleepy and distant. He was gracious but removed from the situation.
The next morning, I began to
teach. I was about ten minutes into my message when I noticed that this man was
fast asleep. Normally, that doesn't bother me, but that particular day it kind
of irritated me and I thought, Well, good night, I've got all these great
pearls of wisdom that I'm sharing, and he's sleeping through them ! I'm sure
there was some pride in the way I was thinking.
By the third day, it was
obvious that the man only attended my talks so he could sleep. He didn't come
to listen. Before the end of the week I was thinking, Boy she has got one
challenge on her hands. She always listened carefully, perched on the edge of
her seat, writing things down, and drinking it all in. The last afternoon we
were there, she asked me, "Could I speak with you when the meeting has ended
tonight? There are some things I'd like to share." And I said "Sure,
that'd be fine, I'll stick around and we'll talk." And I just knew that
she had marriage problems. I just knew she would say that her husband wasn't
sensitive to spiritual things, and I hoped I would have a chance to
encourage her.
That evening, after pretty
much everyone had left, the woman walked up to me. She said, “First of all, I
want to thank you for all this week." I said, "Your welcome."
She said, "You see, my husband has terminal cancer." My stomach
turned at that point, She said, "One of his great wishes before death was
that he'd have a chance to meet you and hear you teach. You're his
favorite."
I blinked through tears as I
said to her, "I need to apologize. I've had a rotten attitude, and I
didn't know about your husbands’ situation." Of course, she
understood. She was very gracious. And then she left.
I stayed there another thirty
minutes all by myself. I felt so ashamed. But I learned a very important
spiritual lesson that evening: I don't know enough to judge anyone else. And
neither do you. You don't know why people do what they do. You think you know,
but you don't. You're not God. You don't know all the pain and all the reasons
behind people's action.
Does this guideline mean we
must always agree with other? Certainly not, but it does mean we should be
civil in our conflicts, realizing that others may be dealing with situations
that we are not aware of.
EXPRESS
YOUR LIBERTY WISELY
The final guideline flows out
of Romans 14:13-18: Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather
determine this---not to put an obstacle or stumbling block in a brother's way.
I know and am convinced in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself;
but to him who thinks anything to be unclean, to him it is unclean. For if
because of food your brother is hurt, you are no longer walking according to
love. Do not destroy with your food him for whom Christ died. Therefore do not
let what is for you a good thing be spoken of as evil; for the kingdom of God
is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy on the Holy
Spirit. For he who in this way serves Christ is acceptable to God and approved
by men.
Here's guideline four: Loving
others requires us to express our liberty wisely, In other words, love must
rule. Our goal is not to please ourselves----or others---- but the Lord
(Corinthians 5,9,15) He is the one who bought us with His blood
Consequently, we shouldn't
act out our lives according to what others say. Rather, we should act out our
lives on the basis of out love for others because we answer to Christ (Romans
14:10). When you love someone, you adjust your life. That's a sign of growing
up.
One way to show our love for
others is by expressing our liberty wisely. We do that by enjoying our
liberty without flaunting it.....quietly, privately, and with those of the like
mind who aren't offended by the liberty.
I've known Christians who
didn't mind drinking wine in public, so they would get a big bottle, pour it,
and drink it while they mocked other Christians who didn't believe in drinking
whine. That's not love: that's selfishness. If you don't mind a little wine,
drink it. Just drink it privately, that’s your business. Don't feel like you
have to explain it to me. If I was in your home and opened the refrigerator to
get a drink of water, and I saw a bottle of wine there, I wouldn't say, "
Oh, my gosh! I thought you were a Christian!" I'm not going to do that.
You know why? What's in your refrigerator is your business.
A person of grace never rubs
others' noses in his or her freedom.
A
FEW ACTIONS THAT SIGNIFY GRACE
Can I go back to Bonnet and
Crossbeak for a moment? Their story reminds us that our task is to free people,
to help them to find room to grow and learn and swim and breathe, not to plug
up their windpipes. Our task is to love and encourage other people.
I love Ruth Bell Graham's
answer when asked about her role in the life of her husband, the renowned
evangelist Billy Graham. She said, "My job is to love Billy; it's God's
job to make him good.”May every wife and every husband remember that. It's my
job to love my wife, it's God job to make her good. It's your job to love your
husband or wife; it's Gods job to make them good. It's your job to love others;
the rest is up to the Lord.
I'd like to conclude with a
few thoughts culled from Romans 14:19: so then we pursue the things which make
up for peace and building up of another.
On the basis of this
statement, consider a few actions that signify grace:
****Concentrate on things that
encourage peace and assist others' growth. Filter whatever you do through this
twofold grid: Is this going to encourage peace? And, is this going to hurt and
offend or help and strengthen?
****Remember that the sabotaging of
the saints hurts the work of God. Paul warns in Romans 14:20 not to "tear
down the work of God for the sake of food.' You sabotage the saints when you
flaunt your liberty, knowing that others have convictions against it. Enjoy
your liberty, but enjoy it discreetly.
****Exercise your liberty only with
those who can enjoy it with you. In other words, keep it private and personal.
That's not deception; it's wise and necessary restraint.
****Determine where you stand, and
refuse to play God in anyone else's life. By letting others be, you free
yourself to give full attention to what God is trying to make of you. When
you're totally absorbed with that, you won't have the time or the energy to
meddle in someone else's life.
Romans 14 is not about issues
central to the faith, but about peripheral things like meat sacrificed to idols
and the observance of religious days. Paul's point is that these peripheral
issues shouldn't cause division. The body of Christ should feature both unity
and diversity. The church incorporates not only a diversity of gifts (1
Corinthians 12), but a diversity of personalities and opinions (Romans 14).
We're all different, yet we're all one.
IT'S TIME TO EMBRACE GRACE!!!
BY Chuck Swindoll
GRACE
God’s Riches At
Christ’s Expense
&
*TRUTH* How God’s Truth
Is Distorted
*LIES
filtered
through
God
is:
the grid of We
feel that God is:
Good & merciful
BAD or FALSE
Mean &
unforgiving
TEACHING
grace
THOUGHTS
approval
RELATIONSHIPS
MODELS
Nurturing
OF AUTHORITY
Critical &
unpleasable
FIGURES
Accepting
Rejecting
.
SELF-DEFENSE
Just, fair & impartial
MECHANISMS Unjust,
unfair, partial
untrustworthy
Wake-up people; wake-up:
The two most important issues in the world
are religion and politics; both subjects are intertwined in the formation of
this country; from the Biblical violations that were the religious
underpinnings that gave us our Declaration of Independence (27 Biblical
violations), to the Bible used at the swearing in ceremonies of our elected
officials.
There was a time not that long ago that the
majority of the people in the United States of America believed the principals put forth in the Bible, in God,
in Jesus, in the Holy Spirit; that understood the concept of Heaven and Hell,
that understood the concept of good and evil and understood the concept of
Spiritual Warfare.
These days many people snub their nose at the Christian
belief that Jesus is the Son of God! It was that fundamental belief and the
want to practice their Christian belief that led to the pilgrims coming to the
“New World” to the Christians establishing the Declaration of Independence, it
was Christians who fought the Revolutionary War and then it was Christians who
wrote up and then ratified the Constitution. For some reason this is no longer
taught in the school systems.
Unfortunately being human, people forget
their ways and misinformation gets taught instead of the fundamentals (KISS) of
Christianity and in the 1800’s we had “Christian brother” killing “Christian
brother” in the Civil War.
Somewhere in the bowels of the National
Cathedral is a statue of Abraham Lincoln in prayer. President Lincoln was once
asked If God was on the side of the North or the South, his response “Sir, my
concern is not whether God is on our side; my greatest concern is to be on
God’s side, for God is always right” with both sides professing Christianity and
killing people it becomes difficult to envision “whose” side God is on.
World War II had the Christians of Germany
massacring Blacks, Gypsies, Jews or anybody who got in there way it took a
large number of American Christians to stop the massacres.
Some people naturally gravitate toward power
and there is nothing wrong with that when it is not abused, but when the
Preachers, the Rabbi’s and the Iman’s are confused enough not to speak out on
injustices that come from abuses of power and money everyone suffers.
Where does the misinformation come from;
people who laugh at the concept of God, also laugh at the concept of Satan.
People that have no knowledge of Spiritual Warfare, because “we” are to
enlightened to believe in Angles and Demons, “we” are way too intelligent to
think of the Bible as anything other than a child’s fairy tale.
WAKE-UP, Satan, devil, Lucifer, serpent,
ancient serpent, dragon, evil spirit, demon or demons is mentioned or addressed
at least 217 times in the Bible. In the spiritual world these are some big,
ugly, powerful creatures (thugs). This battle between the forces of good and
evil has been going on for thousands of years. We are but a small pawn, a
deposit on a pledge (foot soldier) in a very large battlefield. It is
inexcusable for a man or woman of the cloth who has read the Bible not to
speak-up.
I
realize that for most people this will be a difficult concept but try to think
of God as a Father and Jesus as his son, his son that is willing to fight for
us and think of Satan as a Thug. (Remember KISS method)
Satan the Thug and his buddies are alive and
well, he got his butt kicked by Jesus at the cross but that didn’t finish him
off, it did piss him off. But it also gave us someone akin to a big brother or
friend or mighty warrior to call upon when we get into trouble.
Friendships are not free or easy, they take a
lot of work, Jesus died because of his desire to be our friend. Just like in
real life if you want a friend be a friend. You have to acknowledge that you
have a friend and remember to call to get help, wait too long and you can get
slapped around pretty good by the Thugs.
Jesus is the best nonjudgmental friend we
could possibly have, ever killed any one, had an abortion, lied, cheated, stole
he knows, he understands, talk to him he will understand (this does not mean
you get a free ride, there are still consequences for actions).
The Thugs and the bullies will torment you
just like Thugs (Satan) and (his) bullies have throughout the course of time
but a friend wouldn’t.
Do not think for one moment that you are big
enough to take on Satan and his demons yourself; the founders of this nation
knew they needed help and the smart ones asked for help every day. Were they
perfect? No, they made mistakes but they acknowledged their friend Jesus and
his Father, who walked beside them and helped in the establishment of this
nation.