No one
living today is perfect
There are individuals and
organizations that would attempt to sit in judgment and condemn women who have
had an abortion.
There are large numbers of Vets who have killed others; it was a job
that their government wanted done for whatever reason, some still don’t sleep
well even now 30 or more years later for the older ones and from the articles
that I have read a large number of younger Vets are experiencing problems from
“recent” assignments in foreign countries.
I would like all you women who have had an abortion to look around, you
will find there are lots of men and women who can relate to your pain, and
won’t judge you – they don’t want to be judged.
I would like all you men that have skeletons in your closets to look
around and realize there are lots of women and men who can relate to your pain,
and won’t judge you – they don’t want to be judged.
It makes no difference how or why it happens, taking a life is
going to be difficult for most people without the guilt trips that society
hands out.
There are lots of individuals who don’t feel they have the right to
enter a church: Paul before he received his wake-up call was killing
“Christians” and thinking it was a right and good thing.
He was forgiven, read Mathew, Mark, Luke, John, Acts and Proverbs
for yourself don’t trust someone else to interpret the Bible for you, it is
written in English, Spanish, French, Chinese, most any language in the world,
it is so simple, yet we as people have to make it difficult.
No
one living today is perfect
Reach out to help someone else today, he or she could use a hand
IT'S TIME
TO EMBRACE GRACE
During the 1988 Bush-Dukakis
U.S. presidential race, an unexpected shift of attention occurred. Instead of
the evening news focusing on the presidential candidates, all eyes were glued
to the television to follow the progress of three gray whales that had been cut
off from their migratory route by a frozen sea of ice. Eugene Linden, a
reporter from Time magazine, wrote:
The sight of three battered and bloodied gray whales gasping for breath
at holes on a thickening Arctic ice pack caused Americans to forget, for a
moment or two, both the World Series and the Bush-Dukakis race.
An unlikely, uneasy army of scientists, whale-hunting Eskimos, oil
company officials and environmental activists mustered in frigid Point
Barrow, Alaska, the northern most point in the United States, to organize
a $1 million rescue effort. Biologists named the whales “Bonnet",
"Crossbeak" and "Bone." By weeks end the Eskimo
names---Putu, Siku, and Kanik, Ice Hole, Ice, and Snowflake. They also had the
good wishes of President Reagan, who called to tell rescue workers that our
"hearts are with you and our prayers are also with you". The media
frenzy prompted a bewildered Ron Morris Fisheries biologist coordinating the
rescue, to remark, "This is completely out of proportion."
Once the media brought the whales' plight home to our living rooms,
volunteers flocked to the scene with heavy machinery and a determination to
free the stranded whales. But the volunteers' ingenuity and energy were soon
exhausted. Enter the National Guard, who swooped in with helicopters to drop
five-ton concrete blocks to break up the ice. Then, in a cooperative agreement
with the United States and the Soviet Union dispatched two ice-breaking ships
to facilitate the rescue.
After three weeks of intense rescue efforts, Bonnet, and Crossbeak were
finally freed. (Sadly, the third whale, Bone died before making it to safety.)
This heroic and noble whale rescue sparked a sense of compassion throughout the
world, but it did something else too. It revealed that people seem more willing
to pitch in to save ocean-dwelling mammals then they are to join hands in
rescue efforts that involve mankind.
If you don't agree, just consider the following questions. How many
people would dig into their pockets to help a homeless couple stranded on the
icy streets of Chicago? How many would donate their money to free a family
from a New York ghetto? How many would open their homes to unwed mothers? How
many would sacrifice their time and money to minister to prisoners? How many
would devote themselves to sharing the gospel with all their non-Christian
neighbors and colleagues?
It's a sad fact: we're often more willing to help save the whales then we
are to help save human beings.
You might wonder where in the world I'm going with this story about the
whales and I'm happy to tell you. While I watched the scene and read about it
in the periodicals, I noticed the irony in the trouble that we will take to set
free creatures with whom we can't even communicate intelligently; but how slow
we are on the family of God to set one another free from our own lists of
rules, inhibitions, restrictions, and expectations! We'll spend millions to
help the whales make it back to the ocean, but we'll hardly give each other
room to breathe in the spiritual and theological area's in which we disagree.
If I had one wish for the family of God, it would be that we would learn
to demonstrate more grace to one another in our relationships.
When I helped start a new church in Frisco, Texas, and we began to build
our staff, we chose six core values. One of those values is "grace in our
relationships." We understood that IF we were to cooperate well as a
ministry, we would have to show grace in our relationships. The full statement
of that core value reads:
As a ministry devoted to communicating God's grace, we must demonstrate
that same grace within our own walls. We must put this into practice through
our thoughtfulness, kindness, generosity, courtesy, freedom, forgiveness,
encouragement, and appreciation of others' differences as we inspire greatness
in those around us.
The men and woman of my generation were not raised to be free. We were
raised with lists of rules to follow. Expectations were laid on us, beginning
with our parents, and then including teachers, pastors friends, and, fellow
church members. We weren't given any wiggly room if we wanted to be perceived
as "spiritual". Rather then celebrating the differences in the
body, encouraging liberty, and, cutting through the ice so that we can all swim
freely, authority figures tried to force us all into the same mold. We were
told to "just sit there quietly and be good, little Christians" We
were encouraged to act in a way that would please the pastor and allow us to
gain status in the eyes of the people.
One of my spiritual goals is to NEVER fall into that trap again. I've
found that Christians can become such controlling people. Rather then freeing
others and affirming their unique value and roles in the body of Christ, we
tend to place them in bondage and judge them. We may be willing to travel
halfway around the world to help free non-Christians from the shackles of sin,
but we are pathetically slow to reach out to our own neighbors or to release
our own brothers and sisters in Christ from the chains of legalism.
Though Christ has already set us free from sin through His Death and
resurrection, many of us remain trapped in the ice of impossible expectations,
legalistic requirements, and performance-based spirituality. Instead of
exerting energy to free fellow believers, we let them suffocate under the ice,
never experiencing the freedom guaranteed by the blood of Christ.
Lest you think this type of control is a new disease, let me show you
Galatians 2:4, where Paul writes about some non-Christians who had sneaked into
the mist of the Galatian church for the purpose of controlling the people.
But it was because of the false brethren secretly brought in, who had
sneaked in to spy out our liberty which we have in Christ Jesus, in order to
bring us into bondage.
Now look at Paul's response:
But we did not yield in
subjection to them for even an hour, so that the truth of the gospel would
remain with you. (2:5)
I love that! The same verse in THE MESSAGE reads, "We didn't give
them the time of day." If all legalists were treated like that, they
wouldn't get a foothold in the local church. But because these types of people
tend to intimidate others (and because so few Christians are willing to stand
up to them like Paul did), they often worm their way into the church and start
controlling others
Jesus said, “You will know
the truth, and the truth will set you free, you will be free indeed" (John
8:32, 36) But those with legalistic tendencies paraphrase this verse to read,
“If you wish to be free, you must be free on my terms. You will be free if you
keep the list of dos and don'ts that I give you. If you don't you'll be marked
for life, and you'll never attain a high level of spirituality"
Consider this funny but
telling example:
A group of theologians was
discussing predestination and free will. When the argument became heated the
dissidents split into two groups. One man which was unable to make up his mind
which group to join slipped into the predestination crowd. Challenged as to why
he was there, he said, “I came of my own free will". The group retorted:
Free will? "You can't join us!" He retreated to the opposing group
and met the same challenge. "I was sent here." he answered honestly.
Get out! They stormed. "You can't join us unless you come of your own free
will." The confused Christian was left out in the cold.
We can laugh about such
ridiculous examples until their truth hits us. It's these very things ----splitting hairs and judging
others----that drive people miles and miles from any interest in the church or
any desire to spend time with Christian people
One of my prayers for the
church worldwide is that we will become a people of grace. Every time I sniff
out legalism I confront it. Why do I do that? Because legalism ruins churches.
It puts people in bondage, and it "ices them in." Their
"breathing holes" become smaller and smaller as a few
controlling, strong-willed people strive to get in their way. And I'm not going
to let that happen.
One of the responsibilities as a spiritual shepherd is to guard the
sheep from heresy, and there are few heresies worse then legalism. We do not
believe in a legalistic kind of salvation; we believe salvation is by grace
through faith, as the Bible clearly states. However, for some strange reason,
we seem to believe in SANCTIFICATION by legalism. We believe that people are
saved by faith alone, in Christ alone, apart from works--buy spirituality.--We
seem to think that a person can only become spiritual by doing this or by
giving up that, by hanging out with those like us and by not associating with
those who say or do things we don't agree with. Nothing could be further from
the truth.
LET GRACE FLOW FREELY
In order to loose the chains
of legalism and lead people to freedom, we must let grace flow freely. We need
to let people look different from us, act differently, and see things in a
different way then we do. Now, we're not talking about differences of doctrine
here. We can't waver on the essentials, but the non-essentials are just that:
not essential. We're not talking about changing the pillars of our
faith----just the window dressing.
I'm going to mention a couple of traps that we can fall into, and then
I'm going to give you some guidelines from Romans 14. But first, let me explain
the ways in which we can allow grace to flow freely.
Here's the principal: ALLOWING GRACE TO FLOW FREELY MEANS WE LET OTHERS
BE. Unfortunately, two strong and very human tendencies work against this
principle. First, we tend to compare ourselves with others, which leads us to
criticize or compete with them. Second, we attempt to control others, which
results in our manipulating and intimidating them. Let's dissect and examine
both of these tendencies that keep grace from awakening in our lives.
THE
TENDENCY TO COMPARE
Most people tend to prefer
others who share agreement, sameness, predictability, and common interests with
them. As a result, if someone thinks differently, prefers different
entertainment, wears different clothes, or enjoys a different lifestyle, we get
a little nervous. For example, how do you respond to your friend who:
***PLAYS CARDS****
***LOVES TO DANCE****
***LISTENS TO "SECULAR
MUSIC"****
***GOES TO THE BEACH ONE SUNDAY
INSTEAD OF GOING TO CHURCH****
***DRIVES A CERTAIN CAR****
***OWNS A SECOND HOME****
***HAS A GLASS OF WINE WITH DINNER
OCCASIONALLY****
***DOESN'T HAVE A QUITE TIME IN THE
MORNING****
***WATCHES CERTAIN MOVIES OR
TELEVISION****
***WEARS MAKEUP AND/OR JEWELRY****
***DECIDES TO HAVE PLASTIC
SURGERY****
***SMOKES CIGARS****
If Scripture refuses to
comment, why do we pipe up to judge and criticize others who disagree with us
in these gray areas? Our problem is one of superficiality. We tend to see
only the surface, and therefore, we put too much weight on externals. We judge
by appearances rather than actualities.
But the problem goes deeper than that. It goes beyond the need for and
eye exam. We also need an attitude adjustment, because comparison knocks our
attitude out of alignment. It makes us prejudiced people. And it
counteracts and opposes the work of grace.
We need to guard ourselves against the comparison trap. You might say
"Well, I don't really compare myself to others much." Really? What
about your income? Your academic degrees? Marital status? Music tastes? Size of
your home? Choice of vehicle? Vacation destination? Clothing styles and labels?
The schools your children attend? The job you have? We compare all these things
and all of it nullifies grace.
God never meant for the church to be a religious industry designed to
churn out cookie-cutter Christians and paper-doll saints. On the contrary, His
church is supposed to be a celebration of diversity (1 Corinthians 12). God
loves differences. He made the zinnia as well as the orchid. He made the
buzzard as well as the butterfly. I mean, visit the zoo! Some of the animals
will make you laugh out loud. The giraffe doesn't look at all like a swan. The
crocodile doesn't look a thing like the toad. God created the stars, and He
also created the swamplands. He made it all, and He finds the differences
delightful.
Unsure of this? Look at the people in the Bible. They are as
different as Rahab and Esther, the one an ex-prostitute and the other an
exquisite queen.
Variety honors God. Uniformity bores Him. Consider the variegation of
the threads woven through the genealogy of God's Son in Matthew. Cup your ears
in the marble hallways of faith in Hebrews 11, and hear the echoes of diversity
Page through church history, and read about the great differences in the men
and woman who shaped the world.
Legalism requires that we all be alike, unified in convictions and
uniform in appearance, strictly abiding by man-made rules and regulations.
Grace, on the other hand, takes pleasure in diversity, encourages individuality
and leaves room for differences of opinion. But before we will be able to
demonstrate sufficient grace to let others be who they are, we'll have to get
rid of our legalistic tendency to compare.
THE
TENDENCY TO CONTROL
Another attitude we need
to change is the desire to control others. This tendency is especially
prevalent among those who find their security in religious rigidity. One of the
clearest signs of insecurity among leaders is a tendency to control people.
They manipulate by using fear tactics, veiled threats, and oblique hints to get
their way.
Controllers attempt to win by intimidation. Whether physical or verbal,
their ways are those of the schoolyard bully. Resist that. Controllers often
rely on strong wills and manipulation. Resist that. Don’t let anyone manipulate
or exploit you. You are not here to fulfill anyone's agenda except God's. You
are here because you're led. We're all here to please our Father who is to be
glorified.
You might say, "Well, you know, Chuck, offering people this much
grace and freedom seems kind of risky?" It is: that's why most people
don't do it. But it's also risky to teach your teenager to drive, right? It's
risky to fly. It's risky to work out to the point of sweating
profusely. It’s risky to trust your employees to be honest. It's risky to
give church members the freedom to make their own choices. Of course it is! But
you never grow up without risks.
You’re free to fail, and you're free to succeed. Don't do what you do
because of anybody else. Do it because of you. You name the name of Christ, You
live before Christ, You answer to Christ, and that is freedom at its best.
Guard against comparison, and watch out for the tendency to control. Whatever
the method, controlling, like comparing, nullifies grace.
SOME
BIBLICAL GUIDELINES THAT MAGNIFY GRACE
But we don't want to dwell on
those things that nullify grace. We want to discover those things that magnify
it.
In Romans 14, Paul sets forth
four practical guidelines to help us release others on grace. He goes onto
great detail regarding the issue of personal freedom. The first guideline is
found in verses 1-4.
ACCEPT
OTHERS
Now accept the one who is
weak in faith, but not for the purpose of passing judgment on his opinions. One
person has faith that he may eat all things, but he who is weak eats vegetables
only. The one who eats is not to regard with contempt he who does not eat, and
the one who does not eat is not to judge the one who eats, for God has accepted
him. Who are you to judge the servant of another? To his own master he stands
or falls; and he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand. (Romans
14:1-4)
Here's guideline one: Accepting others is basic to letting them
be. The problem in Romans 14 was not a food problem. It was a love
problem, an acceptance problem. It still is. How often do we restrict our love
by making it conditional? How often do we make our acceptance dependent
upon how others measure up to our own set of expectations? Whether the subject
in question is meat sacrificed in a heathen temple or a movie showing in a
Hollywood theater, the principle Paul teaches here is the same: accept one another.
When we don't accept one another, conflicts arise. Paul pinpoints the
two most common ways that people react to these conflicts. First, he said,
"The one who eats is not to regard who with contempt the one who does not
eat" (14:3) The words regard with contempt mean "to regard as
nothing, to utterly despise, to discount entirely."
Second, Paul says, "The one who does not eat is not to judge the
one who eats." (14:3). The word judge means "to criticize, to view
negatively, to make assumptions that are exaggerated, erroneous, and even
damaging to character."
Stop! What in the world is that about? I mean, is this a passage
promoting the eating of vegetarian meals, or is it promoting the eating of
meat? The big taboo back then was not drinking and smoking. It was not
going to the theater or listening to certain kinds of music. The biggest taboo
was that of eating meat that had been offered to idols. Back then, if you
were from a pagan background and had worshiped idols, you had eaten meat that
had been left over from and idol offering. It was sold in the meat market, you
bought your steaks there, and you went home, fixed them, and ate them.
But then when you came to Christ, there were some in the church who
thought, if part of that carcass was offered on an altar to an idol, then it's
contaminated. I shouldn't touch meat that's been offered on an idol alter
because part of it was given to a (pagen) god, and we don't believe in false
gods. So I'm just going to eat vegetables.
Paul's point here is, if you don't believe you should eat the rest of
the meat, don't eat it---but don't tell me I can't eat it! And if you prefer to
eat meat and I prefer to eat only vegetables, don't tell me that I'm wrong for
just eating vegetables.
No matter how strongly we may feel about a certain cultural taboo,
judging another who disagrees with us or looking down our nose with
contempt is wrong. Why? Because, as Romans 14:4 indicates, another
person's convictions are none of our business. After all, who made us the judge
to pass a verdict on other people's lifestyles? Who made us the judge to mete
out a sentence of condemnation? It's God's job to direct them. It's our job to
accept them.
What does acceptance entail? It means you are valuable just as you are.
It allows you to be the real you. You aren't forced into someone else's mold of
who you should be. It means your ideas are taken seriously because they reflect
you. You can talk about how you feel inside and why you feel that way---and
someone really cares.
Acceptance means you can try out your ideas without being shot down. You
can even express difficult and less- then- orthodox thoughts and discuss them
with intelligent questioning. You feel safe. No one will pronounce judgment on
you, even though they may not agree with you. It doesn't mean you will never be
corrected or shown to be wrong; it simply means it is safe to be you, and no
one will destroy you out of prejudice.
Acceptance is basic to letting others be themselves. Consider the next
four verses of Romans 14 as we turn to a second guideline.
LET OTHERS
DECIDE FOR THEMSELVES
One man regards one day above
another, another regards every day alike. Each person must be fully convinced
in his own mind. He who observes the day, observes it for the Lord, for he
gives thanks to God; and he who eats, does so for the Lord, for he gives thanks
to God; and he who eats not, for the Lord he does not eat, and gives thanks to
God. For not one of us lives for himself, and not one dies for himself; for if
we live, we live for the Lord, or if we die, we die for the Lord; therefore
whether we live or die, we are the Lord's. (14:5-8)
Here's guideline two: refusing to dictate to others allows the Lord's
freedom to direct their lives. Do you want to help others grow to maturity?
Here's how: let them grow up differently. Let them unfold to blossom at their
own pace and in their own way. Let them decide for themselves. Let them have
the freedom to fail and to learn from their own mistakes.
To spell that out, don't try to make up other people's minds for
them. Don't manipulate them if your opinion happens to be strong. Leave
them alone. Don't judge them. Don't step in and push your weight around. Don't
assume that because others choose differently that they're wrong and your
right. We answer to God. When you stand before the Lord in the final accounting
of your life, you'll never have to give an account for any other person but
you. Isn't that a relief? You don't have to worry about anybody's choices but
your own.
My wife will never be asked to give an account for Chuck Swindoll, even
though she's been married to me for more than fifty years, God will never say,
"Now tell me about Chuck," He will never do that. First of all,
she wouldn't have enough time, and, second, God's going to ask ME about Chuck.
He's going to ask her about Cynthia. And the same is true for you and your
family and your friends. Each of us belongs to the Lord, Paul states in Romans
14:8. When we realize that, we will stop dictating and start trusting the Lord
to direct the steps of His children.
REFUSE TO
JUDGE OTHERS
The third guideline is found
in Roman 14:9-12: For to this end Christ died and lived again, that He
might be Lord both of the dead and the living. But you, why do you judge your
brother? Or you again, why do you regard your brother with contempt? For we
will all stand before the judgment seat of God. For it is written.
"As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to Me, and every
tongue shall give praise to God". So then each one of us shall give an
account of himself to God.
Here's guideline three: freeing others means we never assume a position
we're not qualified to fill What keeps us from being qualified to judge?
Several things. Not being omniscient, we don't know all the facts. Unable to
see into people's hearts, we can't read motives. Being finite, we lack
"the big picture" Having poor spiritual eyesight, we live with blind
spots and blurred perspectives. Most of all, being human, we are imperfect and
subjective.
I'll give you an example, which I share to my own shame. I was slated to
speak at a conference a number of years ago. On the first night, I met most of
the couples who were there. It was a couple's conference, and I met one dear
lady who was kind and had a lot of sweet things to say, I thanked her. I
noticed then that her husband seemed somewhat sleepy and distant. He was
gracious but removed from the situation.
The next morning, I began to teach. I was about ten minutes into my
message when I noticed that this man was fast asleep. Normally, that doesn't
bother me, but that particular day it kind of irritated me and I thought, Well,
good night, I've got all these great pearls of wisdom that I'm sharing, and
he's sleeping through them ! I'm sure there was some pride in the way I was
thinking.
By the third day, it was obvious that the man only attended my talks so
he could sleep. He didn't come to listen. Before the end of the week I was
thinking, Boy she has got one challenge on her hands. She always listened
carefully, perched on the edge of her seat, writing things down, and drinking
it all in. The last afternoon we were there, she asked me, "Could I speak
with you when the meeting has ended tonight? There are some things I'd like to
share." And I said "Sure, that'd be fine, I'll stick around and we'll
talk." And I just knew that she had marriage problems. I just knew she
would say that her husband wasn't sensitive to spiritual things, and I hoped I
would have a chance to encourage her.
That evening, after pretty much everyone had left, the woman walked up
to me. She said, “First of all, I want to thank you for all this week." I
said, "Your welcome." She said, "You see, my husband has
terminal cancer." My stomach turned at that point, She said, "One of
his great wishes before death was that he'd have a chance to meet you and hear
you teach. You're his favorite."
I blinked through tears as I said to her, "I need to apologize.
I've had a rotten attitude, and I didn't know about your husbands’
situation." Of course, she understood. She was very gracious. And then she
left.
I stayed there another thirty minutes all by myself. I felt so ashamed.
But I learned a very important spiritual lesson that evening: I don't know
enough to judge anyone else. And neither do you. You don't know why people do
what they do. You think you know, but you don't. You're not God. You don't know
all the pain and all the reasons behind people's action.
Does this guideline mean we
must always agree with other? Certainly not, but it does mean we should be
civil in our conflicts, realizing that others may be dealing with situations
that we are not aware of.
EXPRESS
YOUR LIBERTY WISELY
The final guideline flows out
of Romans 14:13-18: Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather determine
this---not to put an obstacle or stumbling block in a brother's way. I know and
am convinced in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself; but to him
who thinks anything to be unclean, to him it is unclean. For if because of food
your brother is hurt, you are no longer walking according to love. Do not
destroy with your food him for whom Christ died. Therefore do not let what is
for you a good thing be spoken of as evil; for the kingdom of God is not eating
and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy on the Holy Spirit. For he
who in this way serves Christ is acceptable to God and approved by men.
Here's guideline four: Loving others requires us to express our liberty
wisely, In other words, love must rule. Our goal is not to please ourselves----or
others---- but the Lord (Corinthians 5,9,15) He is the one who bought us with
His blood
Consequently, we shouldn't act out our lives according to what others
say. Rather, we should act out our lives on the basis of out love for others
because we answer to Christ (Romans 14:10). When you love someone, you adjust
your life. That's a sign of growing up.
One way to show our love for others is by expressing our liberty
wisely. We do that by enjoying our liberty without flaunting it.....quietly,
privately, and with those of the like mind who aren't offended by the liberty.
I've known Christians who didn't mind drinking wine in public, so they
would get a big bottle, pour it, and drink it while they mocked other
Christians who didn't believe in drinking whine. That's not love: that's
selfishness. If you don't mind a little wine, drink it. Just drink it
privately, that’s your business. Don't feel like you have to explain it to me.
If I was in your home and opened the refrigerator to get a drink of water, and
I saw a bottle of wine there, I wouldn't say, " Oh, my gosh! I thought you
were a Christian!" I'm not going to do that. You know why? What's in your
refrigerator is your business.
A person of grace never rubs
others' noses in his or her freedom.
A FEW
ACTIONS THAT SIGNIFY GRACE
Can I go back to Bonnet and
Crossbeak for a moment? Their story reminds us that our task is to free people,
to help them to find room to grow and learn and swim and breathe, not to plug
up their windpipes. Our task is to love and encourage other people.
I love Ruth Bell Graham's answer when asked about her role in the life
of her husband, the renowned evangelist Billy Graham. She said, "My job is
to love Billy; it's God's job to make him good.”May every wife and every
husband remember that. It's my job to love my wife, it's God job to make her
good. It's your job to love your husband or wife; it's Gods job to make them
good. It's your job to love others; the rest is up to the Lord.
I'd like to conclude with a few thoughts culled from Romans 14:19: so
then we pursue the things which make up for peace and building up of another.
On the basis of this statement, consider a few actions that signify
grace:
****Concentrate on things that
encourage peace and assist others' growth. Filter whatever you do through this
twofold grid: Is this going to encourage peace? And, is this going to hurt and
offend or help and strengthen?
****Remember that the sabotaging of
the saints hurts the work of God. Paul warns in Romans 14:20 not to "tear
down the work of God for the sake of food.' You sabotage the saints when you
flaunt your liberty, knowing that others have convictions against it. Enjoy
your liberty, but enjoy it discreetly.
****Exercise your liberty only with
those who can enjoy it with you. In other words, keep it private and personal.
That's not deception; it's wise and necessary restraint.
****Determine where you stand, and
refuse to play God in anyone else's life. By letting others be, you free
yourself to give full attention to what God is trying to make of you. When
you're totally absorbed with that, you won't have the time or the energy to
meddle in someone else's life.
Romans 14 is not about issues
central to the faith, but about peripheral things like meat sacrificed to idols
and the observance of religious days. Paul's point is that these peripheral
issues shouldn't cause division. The body of Christ should feature both unity
and diversity. The church incorporates not only a diversity of gifts (1
Corinthians 12), but a diversity of personalities and opinions (Romans 14).
We're all different, yet we're all one.
IT'S TIME
TO EMBRACE GRACE!!!
BY Chuck Swindoll
GRACE
God’s Riches At
Christ’s Expense
&
*TRUTH* How God’s Truth
Is Distorted
*LIES
filtered
through
God
is:
the grid of We
feel that God is:
Good & merciful
BAD or FALSE
Mean &
unforgiving
TEACHING
grace
THOUGHTS
approval
RELATIONSHIPS
MODELS
Nurturing
OF AUTHORITY
Critical &
unpleasable
FIGURES
Accepting
Rejecting
.
SELF-DEFENSE
Just, fair & impartial
MECHANISMS Unjust,
unfair, partial
untrustworthy
Wake-up
people; wake-up:
We are in very deep crap;
unfortunately most people are clueless as to the spiritual battles being fought
over this country and how close we are to losing.
Going through life I have
tried to live by what in engineering terms is the KISS method, Keep It Simple
Stupid, I try not to use the second “s” or substitute it with a different word,
reason being most people are not stupid, ill-informed maybe, unknowledgeable of
the subject maybe, but rarely stupid.
The two most important issues in the world are religion and politics;
both subjects are intertwined in the formation of this country; from the
Biblical violations that were the religious underpinnings that gave us our
Declaration of Independence (27 Biblical violations), to the Bible used at the
swearing in ceremonies of our elected officials.
There was a time not that long ago that the majority of the people in
the United States of America believed the principals put forth in the
Bible, in God, in Jesus, in the Holy Spirit; that understood the concept of
Heaven and Hell, that understood the concept of good and evil and understood
the concept of Spiritual Warfare.
These days many people snub their nose at the Christian belief that
Jesus is the Son of God! It was that fundamental belief and the want to
practice their Christian belief that led to the pilgrims coming to the “New
World” to the Christians establishing the Declaration of Independence, it was
Christians who fought the Revolutionary War and then it was Christians who
wrote up and then ratified the Constitution. For some reason this is no longer
taught in the school systems.
Unfortunately being human, people forget their ways and misinformation
gets taught instead of the fundamentals (KISS) of Christianity and in the
1800’s we had “Christian brother” killing “Christian brother” in the Civil War.
Somewhere in the bowels of the National Cathedral is a statue of Abraham
Lincoln in prayer. President Lincoln was once asked If God was on the side of
the North or the South, his response “Sir, my concern is not whether God is on
our side; my greatest concern is to be on God’s side, for God is always right”
with both sides professing Christianity and killing people it becomes difficult
to envision “whose” side God is on.
World War II had the Christians of Germany massacring Blacks, Gypsies,
Jews or anybody who got in there way it took a large number of American
Christians to stop the massacres.
Some people naturally gravitate toward power and there is nothing wrong
with that when it is not abused, but when the Preachers, the Rabbi’s and the
Iman’s are confused enough not to speak out on injustices that come from abuses
of power and money everyone suffers.
Where does the misinformation come from; people who laugh at the concept
of God, also laugh at the concept of Satan. People that have no knowledge of
Spiritual Warfare, because “we” are to enlightened to believe in Angles and
Demons, “we” are way too intelligent to think of the Bible as anything other
than a child’s fairy tale.
WAKE-UP, Satan, devil,
Lucifer, serpent, ancient serpent, dragon, evil spirit, demon or demons is
mentioned or addressed at least 217 times in the Bible. In the spiritual world
these are some big, ugly, powerful creatures (thugs). This battle between the
forces of good and evil has been going on for thousands of years. We are but a
small pawn, a deposit on a pledge (foot soldier) in a very large battlefield.
It is inexcusable for a man or woman of the cloth who has read the Bible not to
speak-up.
I realize that for most people this will be a difficult concept but
try to think of God as a Father and Jesus as his son, his son that is willing
to fight for us and think of Satan as a Thug. (Remember KISS method)
Satan the Thug and his buddies are alive and well, he got his butt
kicked by Jesus at the cross but that didn’t finish him off, it did piss him
off. But it also gave us someone akin to a big brother or friend or mighty
warrior to call upon when we get into trouble.
Friendships are not free or easy, they take a lot of work, Jesus died
because of his desire to be our friend. Just like in real life if you want a
friend be a friend. You have to acknowledge that you have a friend and remember
to call to get help, wait too long and you can get slapped around pretty good
by the Thugs.
Jesus is the best nonjudgmental friend we could possibly have, ever
killed any one, had an abortion, lied, cheated, stole he knows, he understands,
talk to him he will understand (this does not mean you get a free ride, there
are still consequences for actions).
The Thugs and the bullies will torment you just like Thugs (Satan) and
(his) bullies have throughout the course of time but a friend wouldn’t.
Do not think for one moment that you are big enough to take on Satan and
his demons yourself; the founders of this nation knew they needed help and the
smart ones asked for help every day. Were they perfect? No, they made mistakes
but they acknowledged their friend Jesus and his Father, who walked beside them
and helped in the establishment of this nation.
*ETERNAL INK*
I dreamed I was in
heaven
Where an angel kept God’s book.
He was writing so intently
I just had to take a look.
It was not, at first, his writing
That made me stop and think
But the fluid in the bottle
That was marked eternal ink.
This ink was most amazing,
Dark black upon his blotter
But as it touched the parchment
It became as clear as water.
The angel kept on writing,
But as quickly as a wink
The words were disappearing
With that strange eternal ink.
The angel took no notice,
But kept on writing on and on.
He turned each page and filled it
Till all its space was gone.
I thought he wrote to no avail,
His efforts were in vain
For he wrote a thousand pages
That he’s never read again.
And as I watched and wondered that
This awesome sight was mine,
I actually saw a word stay black
As it dried upon the line.
The angel wrote and I thought I saw
A look of satisfaction.
At last he had some print to show
For all his earnest action.
A line or two dried dark and stayed
As black as black can be,
But strangely the next paragraph
Became invisible to see.
The book was getting fuller,
The angel’s records true,
But most of it was blank, with
Just a few words coming through.
I knew there was some reason,
But as hard as I could think,
I couldn’t grasp the significance
Of that eternal ink.
The mystery burned within me,
And I finally dared to ask
The angel to explain to me
Of his amazing task.
And what I heard was frightful
As the angel turned his head.
He looked directly at me,
And this is what he said…
I know you stand and wonder
At what my writing’s worth
But God has told me to record
The lives of those on earth.
The book that I am filling
Is an accurate account
Of every word and action
And to what they do amount.
And since you have been watching
I must tell you what is true;
The details of my journal
Are the strict accounts of YOU.
The lord asked me to watch you
As each day you worked and played.
I saw you as you went to church,
I saw you as you prayed.
But I was told to document
Your life through all the week.
I wrote when you were proud and bold,
I wrote when you were meek.
I recorded all your attitudes
Whether they were good or bad.
I was sorry that I had to write
The things that make God sad.
So now I’ll tell the wonder
Of this eternal ink,
For the reason for its mystery
Should make you stop and think.
This ink that God created
To help me keep my journal
Will only keep a record of
Things that are eternal.
So much of life is wasted
On things that matter not
So instead of my erasing,
Smudging ink and ugly blot…
I just keep writing faithfully and
Let the ink do all the rest
For it is able to decide
What’s useless and what’s the best.
And God ordained that as I write
Of all you do and say
Your deeds that count for nothing
Will just disappear away.
When books are opened someday,
As sure as heaven is true;
The Lord’s eternal ink will tell
What mattered most to you.
If you just lived to please yourself
The pages will be bare,
And God will issue no reward
For you when you get there.
In fact, you’ll be embarrassed,
You will hang your head in shame
Because you did not give yourself
In love to Jesus’ name.
Yet maybe there will be a few
Recorded lines that stayed
That showed the times you truly cared,
Sincerely loved and prayed.
But you will always wonder
As you enter heaven’s door
How much more glad you would have been
If only you’d done more.
For I record as God sees,
I don’t stop to even think
Because the truth is written
With God’s eternal ink.
When I heard the angel’s story
I fell down and wept and cried
For as yet I still was dreaming
I hadn’t really died.
And I said: O angel tell the Lord
That soon as I awake
I’ll live my life for Jesus-
I’ll do all for His dear sake.
I’ll give in full surrender;
I’ll do all he wants me to;
I’ll turn my back on self and sin
And whatever isn’t true.
And though the way seems long and rough
I promise to endure.
I’m determined to pursue the things
That are holy, clean and pure.
With Jesus as my helper,
I will win lost souls to Thee,
For I know that they will live
With Christ for all eternity
And that’s what really matters
When my life on earth is gone
That I will stand before the Lord
And hear Him say, well done.